Tuesday, August 12, 2008

I have to start somewhere

Being married is hard work. I didn't know this 25 years ago. My parents always made it seem so effortless. They had 6 (six) children 5 (five) girls and 1 (one) boy. We were raised Catholic but my parents didn't attend, they just made sure we did and that we got a Catholic ed. Both my parents worked for as long as I can remember. Our parents truly loved each other and it showed in the way they treated one another. Coming from a large family I realize now that we went without a lot, yet at the time I thought we were fairly well off. I never felt I went without because our parents taught us early to appreciate the things we had and to know the difference between wants and needs.
I feel kids today are not taught this and they assume they deserve every thing they want. Most get it now a days even if the parents have to go into debt or work two jobs just to pay for the kids wants. then they don't even appreciate the things much less the sacrifice the parents had to make to buy it for them. Parents today are to busy giving kids things and forgetting how important their time spent with their kids is. If children felt more love an acceptance they wouldn't have so many wants.
My heart goes out to kids today. They are missing so much.
As a child I didn't have all the cool cloths and or the latest gadget but I did have a family that loved me. We all played together, walked to school together, had a lot of the same friends and house was the house everyone wanted to hang out at. Mom and Dad always had time to make things fun at home. They even let us paint the inside of our garage all different colors and let us have parties on Friday nights. We would have 20 or more kids over and play records and dance, play games and just sit around and talk til 10:00 pm. Mom always had popcorn and kool-aid made for us and use that as a way of checking in on us. (I didn't realize that at the time).
My time is up for tonight so my prayer for tonight will be for parents and grandparents to see how neglect the kids are today and step up and take back their kids from this world and love them protect them and pray for them.
WILL YOU JOIN ME!

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